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There’s no way around it. If she is going to be engaged or married she has to wear a ring. Well I guess she could get one tattooed.

buy her a pearl or a plain band and if she chooses not to wear it, that is her choice.

Uhh…I don’t really know how you engage or wed someone without a ring.

Kudos to her for hating diamonds, though. If I were to wed a girl, I’d offer a platinum ring, but diamonds are just stupid.

get her a ring like a sapphire or ruby or be creative and get a braclet or earings ask her which she likes a necklace would be best im the same way i hate rings i would go for a really expensive sapphire necklas!

Buy her a different jewel that she likes, such as a ruby or something, and have it put on a nice chain so she can wear a necklace. Depending on her personality and what she likes, tattoos are also an option. I’ve seen people with tattoos of rings on their wedding finger.

Find a romantic way to ask her but don’t get her a ring. Later you can discuss what she wants to do. Get a tattoo? That’s another option.

Get her a locket with something special and meaningful engraved inside on one half and on the other half a picture of the both of you. Or if not, and this is a pretty extravagant suggestion, get a matching tiara/tiarella, necklace and bracelet ‘encrusted’ with her favourite gem(s) and give them to her when you propose as your crown jewels to her.

Why don’t you get her a ring with out a diamond and explain that you would have liked to get her a diamond but since she’s against it that’s a symbol of your engagment.

Talk to her best friend, she could find out for you for sure. Or try asking her what kind of stone, shape she likes, just so she doesn’t guess you are about to propose… But a friend would be the best choice.

If you guys are talking marriage, and you have an honest and open relationship – then why are you asking this question on-line?? ASK HER!!! Trust me, if she’s as opinionated as you describe her to be, she will tell you EXACTLY what she wants and doesn’t want.

What’s her birth stone?

i think u should get her a unique kinda ring but im sure if ubuy her anything shell love it=]

get a nice ring with a stone of her favorite color ruby (red) emerald(green) topaz…stones come in a bunch of different colors, then get a nice chain and put the ring on it and give her a necklace with the ring so if she ever wants to ware the ring she can take it off the chain or if she hates rings that much she will have a necklace and can ware the ring close to her heart.

I’ve heard of people who don’t want to be traditional exchanging necklaces with a ring as a pendant, or another necklace of their choice so you could do that and there’s probably other things you could do. I’d type in alternatives to engagement rings or wedding rings into a search engine.

I would definitely get her a ring. I don’t wear rings, but if my boyfriend got me an engagement ring you better believe i am going to wear it. It’s not just a piece of jewelry. It is a symbol of your love. As for the diamond thing. I think she would appreciate it if you got her the “clean diamonds”. Some companies offer a promise that their diamonds were not manufactured in the way that they were in blood diamond. I think doing this will show her how much you really do care about her morals. I think she’ll love it!

Maybe you guys could get tattoos instead of wedding rings. My friend and his wife got simple yet really elegant bands tattooed around their ring fingers instead. It’s nice becouse it’s different and even more symbloic and permanent. Good luck!

your in a hard postition then…if shes really serious about not wanting a ring then get her a necklace or a braclet, and explain to her that u remembrd how she didnt want a ring n she doesnt want a diamond especially, so you got her that in stead. many girls will say they dont like rins bt they do. as long as you know shes serious about not liking a ring then get her a bracelet or somthng lik that. she will b flatterd that u remebrd she doesnt lik rings and she doesnt want a diamond one at that. GOOD LUCK!

A ring and an engagement ring are 2 totally different things!

I don’t know any woman who isn’t overwhelmed with emotion when asked to marry them. I bet she would love it and love showing it off.

Maybe look for a ring with her birthstone or favorite stone, or a ring that has designs on it and no stones. Celtic designs are beautiful, classic and romantic

Another idea is a ring with your name and hers on it, now consider that a ring that looks like a wedding band may not go well with a solid wedding band — but you may find something you love.

From everything you’ve said, i don’t think you should surprise her with a ring…

Plan a romantic wonderful proposal and ask her to be your wife, giving her flowers or something else that would show your affection at the moment and after she accepts tell her that you would love to give her a symbol of your engagement but that you want it to be perfect and would like for her to help pick it out. Then discuss with her what she would like… a necklace perhaps? She may even surprise you by wanting a ring that is non-traditional, but either way, you will be engaged and find the perfect symbol to express that or choose not to have one at all. I know a couple recently who are engaged and chose not to have and engagement ring but will have matching bands when they marry. To each, his own! There is no wrong way to be engaged!!!

Well I knew a guy who did not like rings so he got a tattoo of a band around his wedding finger. Or maybe you could get her a ring with out a diamond. Maybe a stone or pearl. I am sure she would want to wear a wedding ring from you. Trust me she will make arrangements. If she does not like the ring mail it to me and marry her. Me and her will both be happy!

I’ve never heard of a girl that doesn’t like diamonds…strange. Well, you can get her a ring of any stone that she prefers. It doesn’t have to be the traditional diamond. Try going to a jewelry store that will help you with designing a ring specifically for her. Then, maybe you could get her a really nice (and strong) chain, so that she can wear the ring on a necklace if she doesn’t want to wear it on her finger. Hopefully she’ll wear it on her finger, at least part of the time.

You know, it’s not that unusual for a couple to pick out a ring together. Or if she doesn’t like rings you two could pick out another item or piece of jewelry that would be a symbol of your coming marriage.

As for diamonds there are plenty of options. There are so called “ethical” diamonds that are mined in Canada where the working conditions are much better for the miners. Some Canadian diamond companies, such as Igloo Diamonds, also put a portion of their profits into charitable work.

All of these questions will disappear when you actually show your commitment to her by asking for her hand in marriage. It is a symbol of love and devotion.

Get her something very simple and get a different stone than a diamond if she feel so strongly. There doesn’t even have to be a stone.

The whole point is the feeling behind it, don’t get caught up on ring itself.

I never liked rings myself and never wore them, however my engagement ring is on my finger every moment of every day.

Well, you should ask her the reason why she doesn’t like rings? And about the movie that’s not a problem you can just but her a silver or gold ting without any diamonds it doesn’t have to have diamonds.

That is so crazy because I thought ALL women loved diamonds!! BUT did you ever think about a tattoo ring?? I mean yes you have to be 100 percent sure that you want to be with this person the rest of your life but that is a simi good idea I guess……

But I would still buy her a diamond b/c once she sees how much it means to you maybe it will change her mind.

When my fiance gave me a promise ring I was kinda iffy about it b/c I was not one to wear rings either but when he gave me my engagement ring I was overwhelmed at all the thought and time he had put into it….I absolutely LOVE my engagement ring too!!! (Princess cut 1kt) BEAUTIFUL!!! She will like it….it just takes some getting use too!!

AND ANOTHER THING….my best friend sounds like your girlfriend she hated rings and when her fiance went to get a ring he bought a 1/4 kt and everyday she looks at my ring and says she didn’t like rings but she wishes he would have gotten her a bigger one….SO….just because she doesn’t like rings doesn’t mean you can get her a small engagement ring….they are VERY important….just think she will be wearing this the rest of her life…..make it beautiful!!

1) You could buy her an ecologically and politically friendly diamond. For example, my friend’s engagment ring is from Canada, so it doesn’t carry the karmic guilt of a diamond harvested by unethical companies. She may not have been serious about *never* wanting any diamond under any circumstances, but that’s a call you need to make.

2) Get a simple ring with her birthstone, or no stone at all. You can get some stones in colors you wouldn’t expect, such as pink sapphires, if she has a favorite color. Or has a custom-designed ring with an animal or image or design that is meaningful for both of you (a pair of dolphins holding a pearl, a pair of hearts around a ruby, etc).

3) She may make an exception to her “no-ring” policy for her wedding ring. Or she could wear it just for the day, and the rest of the time wear it on a chain around her neck. Or you could be a very modern couple that just chooses not to symbolize your love with rings, if that is acceptable to both of you. But give her the ring anyway, and then you two can decide what to do with it.